Confidence Set

My three kids love this card pack and are actually excited to do it. I saw an ad on IG and it spoke to me. From trying new foods to struggling with homework, I've seen them go through it and wanted to help but didnt know how. These cards are like mini challenges. They are doable and give my kids small wins that they feel proud of. I just placed an order for the Positive Mindset and Social Skills set. Looking forward to sharing my feedback for those as well.

The progress tracker has been a game changer for my son. He lives for stamping each star, and it’s actually helped us build a routine around it. He’s proud of seeing his sheet fill up — and I’m proud of the way he’s slowly using the affirmations when he’s feeling unsure or upset.

My daughter used to give up quickly and say, “I’m just not good at this,” whenever something felt hard. Since we started the Confidence set, she’s slowly beginning to see that trying, practicing, and putting in real effort is actually how she grows. My lectures never worked, but the guide that comes with the cards makes for some really meaningful talks, which she responds to way better. We are almost done out second round of the confidence set and I can say the system works.

I’ve been using the Confidence Brain Boosters set with my 13-year-old for a few weeks, and I’m honestly impressed by how much it’s shifted his self-talk. He used to say things like I suck at math, and I'm not good at sports, but I am hearing that a lot less now.

The combo of saying the affirmation and then doing a small action is what really makes it work. It doesn’t feel like work to him

My only tiny complaint (hence 4 stars instead of 5) is that a couple of the actions felt a bit too easy for him after a while, and I wish there were a few “level up” options suggested for my son, who just turned 13. OVerall, a really positive experience.

What I love most is the conversations these cards start. One evening the action was to “do something you have been putting off” We talked about what that could look like and I gently suggested, “How about spending 10 minutes to clean your room?" He thought about it, nodded, and spent the next 15-20 minutes tidying without a fight, then proudly stamped his progress tracker. Instead of nagging, we had a meaningful chat and he chose the action himself. Small deal for some but a huge win for both of us.